A5 Signs Your Relationship Is Over. 

Let's face it: your relationship isn't what it used to be. You've gone from having butterflies in your stomach whenever you're with your special someone to feeling dread when that someone walks in the door. It's tough to admit that your relationship is over, but once you've realized it, there's no use prolonging the pain. If you're wondering whether your relationship is going through a rough patch, or if it's time to say goodbye, then see if these points apply to you. 

At some point, things change,  everything changes, the person you once knew Is not the person you know now, things are off and you feel like your loosing everything. Here are signs that your relationship is Over.

1. THINGS SEEMS OFF.

When you’re in a relationship and your partner seems off in some things;-  maybe h/she is not happy like before, the smile they had isn’t their. This is a sign that things is about to go down if you won’t take any action then things will fall completely.

2. DISTANCE INCREASE.

Before things were pretty cool, they would have much time for you even when they’re busy, they will call or text you every time now If you see they are keeping distance its an indication that things are almost over Most likely.

3. NO MORE TALKS ABOUT THE FUTURE.

Before you too maybe talking about maybe moving in together or maybe even get married in the near future, what about now? things has changed, h/she doesn’t want to talk about it, it pissed them to even hear about it. This shows things are almost over.

4. MORE FIGHTS AND ARGUMENT.

More Fights and argument shows that two of you have a lot of misunderstanding and miscommunication, If you guys don’t come to an agreement then soon your relationship will collapse.

5. YOU’RE ONLY MAKING LOVE.

Sometimes you find it odd, you guys have a lot of disagreement, but when it comes to s3x they make make an effort than in other common interest and issues, this seems a little off cause if he/she wants sex alone then you guys have no future but you’re just wasting time together.

3 TYPES OF WOMEN YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE.

Some women are not worthy Dating, below have written some articles on this kind of women You shouldn’t Date Hope You Enjoy

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1.  LIARS

Sometimes Some women can liar and you won’t easily notice them, She will do things to impress you to cover up her lies and you will find it hard to know but your sharp and keen you will notice and when you get her she will definitely try and confess it saying that he did it so that you wouldn’t get mad or to protect herself from loosing you, which are all liars so watch out for this type of women.

2 GOLD DIGGERS

This kind of women are just into your pockets, they don’t care how much you’ve spend on them, they want more and more each, they will want what they see and If you don’t give them they will get mad over that and make it a big issue more so they can show you that your not the only person they depend on. Don’t date this kind of women.

3. LAZY WOMAN

This kind of women don’t like doing things on their own, even working to earn for themselves is the last thing on their mind, sometimes even doing house chores is hard for them, they will employ someone to do that for them.

WOMEN:- Don’t be this kind of woman or your man will dump you and walk away.

MEN:- From the above at least learn to notice this kind of women don’t fall into their trap.

WHAT YOUR EGO DOES TO YOU.

Ego is what has been ruining your relationships with people. It has made you push people in your life away. The world does not revolve around you. It is not always about you. Your ego seeks to fight and win for you but in most cases, what happens is that you end up on the receiving end. You are the loser in the end.

Relationships are destroyed. You have the most wonderful person as a spouse. All you talk about is your life and what happens to you. I would put it as being self centered but I would rather go with being egotistical. His or her life is not a priority anymore. It is all about you. Sometimes your spouse feels uncared for. In the end your ego will destroy what you have. Remember that you did not get into a relationship with yourself.
At times it appears as pushing people away when in real sense; it is your ego seeking for satisfaction.

No one is perfect but ego blinds you from seeing the reality. It makes you view everyone as inferior. You may end up not establishing any serious relationships with anyone.

It dictates how you live how you talk and who you talk to. In short, ego controls you. ego changes how you communicate. It turns you into a completely different person. Your ego centric attitude will make you feel that you can live without people in your live but when it is gone and the truth caves in, you will realize that no man is an island. You need people but it might be too late to mend the relationships you broke during these times. Relationships that broke because of not acknowledging the presence of important people in your life.
It is time you changed and became selfless. Love and do not expect anything in return. That is the secret to living a beautiful life.

HOW TO KNOW HE IS MR. RIGHT.

Finding the right person for yourself can be hard task, you will have to go through heart breaks, ups and down until when that Right person for you Fits in.

HERE ARE SEVERAL SIGNS FOR MR RIGHT:-

1. HIS HONEST.

For a man to open up for a woman, Its so hard  for him even for the woman he loves and care about. So If his honest with and share every secret with you then connection between you two would be great.

2. HE RESPECTS YOU.

Every woman deserve respect, If your man doesn’t respect you then he doesn’t deserve to be with you and more so he didn’t love or care for you, a man who loves you will never disrespect you not even once. But If you don’t respect your man then expect nothing from him, cause care and love will not be there, respect him too.

3. HE MAKES YOU HAPPY ALWAYS.

Every man who loves you will always do everything to make you happy, he will make your day colorful even without him noticing himself. Every man would love to see his woman happy and smiling all the time and this should also be a two way round, make him happy and smiling each day.

4. HE IS A GOOD LISTENER.

Being a good listener tells that he respects what you say and his ready to listen to what you wanna say, this shows that communication between the two of you, which tells their will be no or little argument. When a man shows willingness to listen, that shows he is looking forward for better relationship for you two.

5. HE IS PROTECTIVE.

Men are natural protectors. So when a man is in love with his woman he will do everything to protect her no matter what costs him, but it doesn’t men fighting with guys for you but protecting you from them in other ways.



To conclude this are not the only thing, cause your man should be fully dedicated to God, he should be prayerful and committed to both of you. Enjoy.

TOP 5 REASONS WHY WOMEN REJECT MEN.

Some Men Keep Wondering Why Women Reject them, but for some reason I have to write Few Of the Reason that I know Might Be of Help to Most Men:-

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1. Badly Presentable.

First Impression Matters when your going on a date, bad presentation is a total turn of to women, hygiene Is more important, women want presentable and neat men not just any guy who wears anything, If your a smoker or a drunkard make sure you brush well cause bad smell is a total turn off to women.

2. Being Boring.

On dates women mostly listen and respond to what your talking about, pick an interesting topic to talk about don’t look boring cause she won’t like to have another date with you if your dull and you have nothing to say. If your so shy then prepare earlier before Going on a date.

3. Being Too Pushy and Nagging.

Sometimes you should know women don’t like being nagged or being pushed to do some things. You don’t know her past maybe she doesn’t want to go through same experience, so stepping over the line will make her keep away from you, If you want to win her Play by her rules, with time your turn for her to get used to you will come.

4. Don’t Exaggerate on somethings.

Relax when you want to focus on a woman, be yourself and don’t make up false and exaggerated stories cause women do notice then, they have sense and most of them can look at you and sense your lying to her. So be careful on what your telling her.

5. Lack Of Ambitions.

Women like men with ambition not men who Just play around not knowing where they are heading, having no objective in your life can be a turn off to the woman you want to date which leads to rejection in the end. Have ambition and direction and she will be close to you.

5 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR MAN HAPPY.

Most Women think Men do cheat cause they choose to but sometimes men cheat cause you (women) didn’t do your part. Men need to be taken care of too just like women, but you fail to show your man he is the only one in your Life ,then you gonna have big problem with your relationship. Men cheat cause they lack your attention or are sexually not satisfied. Below are few ways to keep your man happy:-

1. Show/Tell How Much You Love

So you both married, engage or either dating because you love each other. Before Leaving for work or when you are free, just send a text or Call or either way just write a note telling him how much you love him, trust me it will make him feel special and bring effect on him.

2. Be Supportive to Him

Encourage him if he wants to try something new. Support him if he’s going through a rough time in life. Generally, men do not open up as easily as women do. If you talk to your man, chances are that he will talk back. Support him, and at the same time, respect his privacy. This way you will show how much he means to you and he will be happy about it.

3. Give Him Love and Attention

If a man gets Love and attention from his sole woman, he will not go out looking for it, it all starts with you and he will do the same. Show you care a lot about him and you won’t be disappointed.

4. Trust Him.

Learn to trust your man, I know its hard but if you have doubts about him talk to him rather than talking him or invading his privacy, cause when he finds out that you are on his neck all the time, he's gonna be pissed off or get mad at you.

5. Be attractive

Always, It is possible that your man has lost interest because you have changed significantly—emotionally and physically. Being attractive is important in keeping a relationship alive and healthy. You do not have to look like a Model, but maintain your original shape. Also, Make Love to him when he has desire to, this way he won’t go out looking for someone to sleep with.

5 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR WOMAN HAPPY

Keeping your woman happy is one way to appreciate Her and to show that she means A lot to you, so many Men fail to make their woman happy cause in their mind they know she’s already his and she doesn’t need much treatment but your wrong, below are few ways to make her happy.

1. Take her on romantic dates.

Women Like being taken care Of by their men, surprise dates can be more romantic and special to her, its another to make her smile and happy at the same time, take out her out on weekends after too much work and have fun she will appreciate you and even return the favor.

2. Help Her in Cooking and House Cleaning.

Few men do this, you should try this on her, wake up in the morning prepare breakfast for her, do house cleaning, put it on the table and go wake her up, you can as well blind fold her then bring her to the table and surprise her, Am sure she will put a smile when she sees all this.

3. Surprise Her With Gifts

Buying Gifts for shouldn’t cost you much, women love gifts it doesn’t have to be so expensive but at least you can send her even a flower or even buy her a teddy bear of her favorite color she is going to remember you every time she see the flower or the teddy bear whenever she goes to bed, this one way of making her happy.

4. Be Faithful And Make Her Feel She’s The Only Woman In Your Life.

Women are jealous type when you don’t show the world that she belongs to you, it makes her feel insecure but when you show all your friends that she’s the one this will clear every doubt she has and it will make her happy hence she will belief and trust in you and that will make you faithful to her even If you don’t show it.

5. Share and communicate your feelings.

Show her you care and love her this way your sharing feelings with her, share mutual communication with her, show her you can listen to what she says and come to a mutual understanding, this will lessen argument and misunderstanding between the two of you.

5 SIGNS SHE IS SERIOUS WITH YOU

You Could be dating your girlfriend for sometimes but have you ever thought or ask yourself If she us really serious With You? Some of this signs am going to state them below hope it is of help to you and others out there.

1. She Always Makes You Part Of Her Future.

Your girlfriend could be thinking about you knowing you are always in her future plans. If she always talk about you being in her future every time she talks about something, then she could be really serious about you and your relationship. Even subtle mentions about how your lives would shape up in the future could be signs that there is substance to your relationship.

2. She plans her Things with You

If she talks about her things like her finance, her big ambition or what she plans to do in the nearest future then she is so serious about you, don’t waste her she will be of much importance in the future.

3. She Is So Close With Your Family and Friends.

If your woman always wants to or she is already close to your friends and family this are chances that she isn’t leaving your side anytime soon. Building close ties with a family shows how serious she is with you.

4. She’s Not Possessive .

I know Most women are so much into jealousy when she see her man talking to other women. But if she isn’t much jealousy when she see you with other women talking, that means she trust you. This is only when you show her how serious you are with her and more, you always tell her the truth about everything.

5. She’s hopeful when attending other people wedding events.

You may see this as not a sign but when your woman get emotional, when attending such events like wedding that means she wishes someday it will be her and you being together on such big day. Mostly, If she has ever talked about you two getting married in the future that’s a good signs she is serious with you.

8 SIGNS SHE IS OBVIOUSLY NOT A WIFE MATERIAL.

Their are some characters that men don’t like, but you find many women having this characters, this has made it hard for men to marry such kind of women, so today I had to write down some bad signs that definitely makes him not to marry You.

Here Are the Signs that She’s Not A wife Material.

1. She’s Selfish and All wants attention all to herself every time.

2. She’s so jealous to those people you associate with no Good reason.

3. She doesn’t get along well with your close friends or friends in general including  your relatives.

4. She is always into changing who you are for what she wants you to be.

5. She is lazy or even can’t cook for you and herself.

6. She always complain even on small things that shouldn’t be taken seriously.

7. If You Stole her from another man she said she was In love with then your in trouble cause she may leave you for another man sooner.

8. She has no ambition or direction, she may even be jobless but still saying she looking for a job when actually she’s not into it.

This aren’t the only signs but hope this will be of help.

10 QUALITIES OF A MAN WORTHY TO DATE AND MARRY.

We’ve had several cases, women saying all men are the same, others say they’re all dogs, others say they shouldn’t be trusted. Yeah, we men have heard all this but that doesn’t make us all the same, I know finding the right man is so hard since most men now days don’t know what they want, so today I Listed down some of the qualities that a real man has, hope you enjoy.

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1. He is honest – about who he is and what he has done in his life.

2. He speaks up – even if it is to say things others don’t want to hear.

3. He is focused on progress – not performance – on the process, not the goal.

4. He Loves his family and therefore wants to protect them from harm. This does not have to involve fighting anyone.

5. He Has a true purpose – one that hopefully contributes to the well being of others.

6. He thrives not in competition, but in cooperation. Competition is based on winners and losers, placing value in it simply makes losers feel less of themselves and makes winners buy into the temporary delusion that they are better than others.

7. He is A Devoted fathers not deadbeat dads!

8. He Love and Believes In God

9. He Respects women and never man-handles them.

10. He Moves away from sin

One thing I have definitely learn’t over the past year, is that life will humble you. It humbles all of us at one time or another, which is something that we either embrace, or we fight. If we resist, and we’re never humbled by ‘these moments’, we’ll never learn.